The 13 Traits of a Narcissist

In Psychology Today, Suzanne Degges-White, Ph.D., outlines the key traits of Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD) as defined by the DSM-V and discusses how these traits manifest in daily life. To meet the clinical criteria for NPD, an individual must exhibit at least five of the nine listed traits, which include a grandiose sense of self-importance, a constant need for admiration, entitlement, lack of empathy, and arrogant behaviors. Degges-White explains that narcissists often exploit others, struggle with authentic relationships, and use superficial charm or manipulations to maintain their inflated self-image.

Degges-White also explores an alternative diagnostic model proposed in the DSM-V, which assesses personality disorders across four functional domains: identity, self-direction, empathy, and intimacy. Narcissists typically exhibit impairments in all four areas, with excessive reliance on external validation, difficulty maintaining genuine relationships, and distorted self-perception. While not everyone with narcissistic traits has NPD, Degges-White emphasizes the importance of seeking professional help if a relationship with a narcissist disrupts personal well-being. This can guide individuals toward healthier dynamics and self-understanding.