How Narcissists React to Information About Narcissism

In the PsychCentral article "How Narcissists React to Information About Narcissism" by Darius Cikanavicius, the author explores the wide range of reactions narcissistic individuals may have when confronted with content that reveals or critiques narcissistic behavior. Psychologically, many narcissists respond with indifference, denial, delusion, or projection. They often refuse to recognize themselves in such descriptions, dismiss the information entirely, or twist it to blame others. Some may even study the material, not to grow or heal, but to manipulate more effectively or enhance their perceived intelligence.

Emotionally and behaviorally, the reactions can be intense and disruptive. Narcissists may experience deep shame, rage, or a sense of being personally attacked, especially if they think the material is about them. These emotional responses often lead to aggressive behaviors—like harassment or threats—or non-aggressive ones such as withdrawal and validation-seeking. Cikanavicius notes that these reactions are rarely healthy and often become more entrenched over time, with narcissistic individuals growing more defensive and harmful as they age and others grow less tolerant of their behavior.