Exposing Narcissists: The Hypocrisy of Their Double Standards

In her article "Exposing Narcissists: The Hypocrisy of Their Double Standards" (October 5, 2023), Elizabeth Shaw delves into the self-serving behaviors of narcissists, emphasizing their tendency to impose unrealistic expectations on others while exempting themselves from the same scrutiny. Narcissists often demand accountability, loyalty, and perfection from those around them, yet they deflect blame, avoid responsibility, and engage in deceitful or disrespectful actions without remorse. Shaw highlights how narcissists thrive on controlling and criticizing others, all while dismissing the accomplishments and needs of those they manipulate, perpetuating an imbalanced power dynamic that shields them from facing their own flaws.

Shaw further explains how narcissists exploit vulnerabilities and crave admiration, yet show hostility when challenged or held to the standards they set for others. Their belief in their entitlement to power and dominance contrasts sharply with their fragile egos, which react aggressively to perceived threats. This hypocrisy extends to their demand for forgiveness while refusing to offer it in return, reinforcing their inflated sense of superiority. Shaw concludes that recognizing these double standards is essential in protecting oneself from narcissistic abuse and breaking free from the unhealthy control narcissists attempt to exert over others.

Elizabeth Shaw is not a Doctor or a therapist. She is a mother of five, a blogger, a survivor of narcissistic abuse, and a life coach, She always recommends you get the support you feel comfortable and happy with. Elizabeth can be followed on social media links that can be found in the article that we link below.

We feel it is important to hear directly from the victims and survivors of narcissistic abuse and the experience echoed in their voices.