So, What’s Your Proposal?

So, What’s Your Proposal? offers a straightforward approach to dealing with high-conflict people who are quick to blame others. In a world increasingly marked by blame and confrontation, it’s easy to get caught in the cycle of reaction and defensiveness. This book presents a calm, future-focused alternative: asking, “So, what’s your proposal?” This simple question effectively shifts attention from blame to problem-solving, encouraging high-conflict individuals to take responsibility and focus on finding solutions instead of fixating on past grievances.

With clear guidance and practical examples, this book equips readers to handle difficult conversations with confidence and composure. The proposed three-step method is easy to apply and has shown results in as little as 30 seconds, helping to de-escalate conflict and foster respect. By practicing this approach, readers can avoid the trap of reacting defensively and instead promote constructive dialogue, leading to more peaceful and productive interactions, even in today’s often blame-filled environment.